Thank you so much for your comment. I’ve come to believe that most men have a tendency to be controlling in a relationship. Maybe it’s just in their nature although some are definitely worse. My guy is from NYC so he is most definitely that way! In the end though, I believe they will respect you the more you stand up for yourself and refuse to be a doormat.
I’m glad to hear that you’ve been able to work things out! My guy still calls me every day so who knows. Sometimes it takes leaving for them to change for the better, if they really love you! Don’t you think?